The Big Question

I was asked a question today that I have been asked many times. I was asked "How do you know he is the one you should marry?" I could very easily say "When you know you know" but that statement is only partially true. Many times in our lives we experience a relationship where we feel so involved with someone we are convinced that he/she is "the one". How often does it turn out to not be the truth? My answer is this: I think about my life and my path before him and I think about my life and my path now, his presence in my life has created the greatest amount of positivity and motivation. To me, the person that you spend the rest of your life with should be the person that makes the most change in you. The person that sees the worst in you and does not blink twice about it. The one person that you think " when he is really gone, where will I be?"